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This explains why as a white guy you can get away with being a complete douchebag.Why would you waste your time with anyone other than the cream of the crop?Asian vs White Grindr messages " data-medium-file=" data-large-file=" class="size-medium wp-image-782" src=" alt="Asian vs White Grindr messages" width="700" height="479" srcset=" sizes="(max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px" / Another thing you notice is that there are many hot guys who are simply off limits to Asians.Here’s one guy I tried to message as the Asian and it didn’t get very far.So being Asian my whole life, I finally know how it feels to be a hot white guy for a week.The white guy comfortably gets 1.5 – 2x more messages than the Asian.

Heck, all the main characters in the latest HBO gay drama Looking are white even though the show is set in San Francisco where a third of gays are Asian. And so I wanted to find out for myself what every gay Asian knows – no matter how hot or young you are, you’ll suffer the inevitable Asian “discount” that’s applied when you hit the dating/hookup market.

White guys are the least willing of all the races to date outside their own racial group, and when they do, there’s plenty of competition for them. The folks over at Ok Cupid, one of the biggest free dating sites, collect statistics on this stuff. Actually, going strictly by reply rates (read the chart vertically downwards), white men are the biggest snobs on Ok Cupid, with the lowest reply rates of anyone. 97% of the time when you see an East-West (Asian-White) couple, it’s an older white guy with a substantially younger Asian.

Because there are many more Asians seeking white guys than vice versa, white guys have plenty of choice, while potato-seeking Asians have to settle for whatever they can get.

You’re pretty much a Greek god in the gay community and there really isn’t anybody you can’t get.

For others, you often find “no asians, no blacks” in dating profiles, which shows how racist and white-centric gay dating can be.

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